Words were spoken, feelings were hurt, but as usual the two swept it under the rug, and build up walls. Years went down the road, and life went on as usual, conflicts rose up, walls got highter, wounds got deeper.
FEELINGS GOT HURT AND HEARTS BEGAN TO CLOSE UP
Hoping and expecting things to get better, is not just going to happen, pretending pain doesn’t exist isn’t a way to solve problems… but starting over, or rebuilding what was lost, is the step we need to take, to move forward.
You already have a great foundation, of love, respect, and understanding, now build upon that foundation, and make renovations.
Examine what is missing, and rebuild that which was taken. Only this time, take out the instructions, fix the issues, solve the problems, and slowly rebuild your home, with the help of Christ-your maker.
We sometimes build our marriages on assumptions, past experiences, and old expired feelings, but we are to build with patience, love and respect each day. Each day is a gift, and an opportunity to build something new forgetting what is behind looking forward, to that which is ahead.
Take down anything that is not beneficial for your marriage, bad habits, wrong behaviors, hateful words, and spiteful actions, through communication, patience and kindness.
Don’t rush, slowly take step by step, and move with patience. Lives were shattered, hearts were broken, deep wounds, and scars were formed. Slowly reinforce lies with truth, and rebuilt the broken walls, with trust, faith, respect and honor. Anything that stands in your way, or blocks your vision, or union, is to be taken captive, in other words, removed or destroyed.