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Rebuild to Prosper
by Lena Joseph
Marriage is a remarkable journey filled with surprises and occasional challenges, much like any other significant aspect of life. It is a privilege to cherished moments, celebrate achievements, and create lasting memories with one’s partner. While it may not always be void of difficulties, it is essential to remain united and provide unwavering support to one another through all circumstances.
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And if one prevail against him, two shall withstand him; and a threefold cord is not quickly broken.
Ecclesiastes 4:12
NIV BIBLE
Marriage is a remarkable journey filled with surprises and occasional challenges, much like any other significant aspect of life. It is a privilege to cherished moments, celebrate achievements, and create lasting memories with one’s partner. While it may not always be void of difficulties, it is essential to remain united and provide unwavering support to one another through all circumstances.
Relationships can be complicated, and maintaining the bond once shared with a partner can at times be quite challenging. Couples may start to feel distant from each other, not as playful, or engaging, typically because of negative experiences they’ve had within the relationship, resulting in hurt, pain, and disappointment.
The good news is, regardless of the reasons that led to the disconnection, there are ways to rebuild and reignite the love, and trust that you once shared with your partner.
It’s possible to hit the reset button on your relationship and begin again, this time with the goal of fostering a deeper understanding and more meaningful connection with each other.
Rebuilding a relationship requires time, and effort, but through patience, and a mutual willingness relationship can be restored and rebuilt.
FEELINGS GOT HURT AND HEARTS BEGAN TO CLOSE UP
Hoping and expecting things to get better, is not just going to happen, pretending pain doesn’t exist isn’t a way to solve problems, but starting over, or rebuilding what was lost, is the step we need to take, to move forward.
Words were exchanged, feelings were hurt, walls were built and distance was created, hearts began to close up.
You already possess a strong foundation built on love, respect, and understanding; now expand upon that foundation and make enhancements.
Examine what is missing, and rebuild that which was taken. Only this time, take out the instructions, fix the issues, solve the problems, and slowly rebuild your home, with the help of Christ-your maker.
We sometimes build our marriages on assumptions, past experiences, and old expired feelings, but we are to build with patience, love and respect each day.
Each day is a gift, and an opportunity to build something new, forgetting what is behind looking forward, to that which is ahead.
Get rid of anything harmful to your relationship, like bad habits, disrespectful behavior, hurtful words, or spiteful actions, by focusing on open communication patience, and showing kindness.
Don’t rush, slowly take step by step, and move with patience. Lives were shattered, hearts were broken, deep wounds, and scars were formed.
Slowly reinforce lies with truth, and rebuilt the broken walls, with trust, faith, respect and honor.
START OVER!
Brick by brick, day by day through kindness, patience, gentelness, faithfulness, and self control. Find out what makes his heart beat, her smile, then meet him there, and dance to her beat. If you have lost trust, take time with him in that area, if patience isn’t there, show up through example. Be kind, gentle, even if he isn’t, show up, until you know you’ve done all.
MARRIAGE IS TWO PARTNERS WORKING TOGETHER FOR COMMON GOAL OR VISION
What lessons did you learn? How are you applying them?
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